In Chapter 4 of 9, education assessment and evaluation psychometrician and mother of two Diana Wilmot discusses how to manage a career, a marriage, and children with grandparents 3000 miles away. Wilmot highlights how important babysitters and nannies can be to providing support around the home both when parents are home as well as when they are not. She opines babysitters need not replace parents; rather they may often be helpful to support a parent when in need of additional support.